理直气壮 Vs 忍气吞声

情绪、神经等问题已成为传统的都市病。。
在大家忙碌的过活时，压抑自我而形成的压力逐渐成形。。
忍耐对于大部分人来说再也不是美德，而是懦弱的表现。。
英雄式的表达方式也慢慢燃烧起来。。
不如大家静下心想想。。。
打抱不平、直话直说和理直气壮这些形容词究竟是在褒扬你又或者在贬低你？
打抱不平是为了维持正义，不让弱者被欺凌。。
直话直说是为了光明磊落，不拐弯抹角。。
理直气壮是为了让犯错的一方明白自己的过错，得以改变自己。。
但大家试想想，当你表现出上述三种行为时，初衷是否如上述我所说的？
就算你是，表现后达到的效果又是否与上述的一样？
我相信理智的大家都会了解，事情不是不欢而散，就是吵架收场。。
哀。。。
人类经过数千年信仰、道德的洗礼后，人性的真、善、美原本已日益增加。。
但又被先进的社会熏陶了几百年，傲慢的人类再次回来。。
当认为自己没错时，必定理直气壮和对方理论。。
在这同时，你是否明白“理论”便是你错误的第一步。。。
理直气壮的结局只会有两个。。
1）对方理论赢了你，你的面子无存。
2）对方理亏所以输了，但因没办法下台而和你大打出手。
无论赢或输，你都是输了。。。
人类做许多事情的出发点都是好的，但好的目的却造成坏的结局并不见得是明智之举。。
忍气吞声不是懦夫，而是和平主义者。。
直话直说不是英雄，而是暴力创始人。。
爱身边的人，不是把“麻烦”惹来然后帮他们挡。。
爱一个人，是会带她到一个安全的地方，连“麻烦”的影子都看不见。。
这才是爱，不是吗？

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可以说的秘密

can anyone imagine of qi jia playing piano

ok, i know is not weird or odd if a guy is playing a piano

but..but the one im talking bout..its qi jia!

yes this is the "qi jia" i mention

it will be very weird for me to see him playing the piano wakaka

will he looks like jay chou?!when he is playing it..

for sure definitely he wont looks like him..haha erm..not in physically

but in what they do is bit similar alike :

basketball
break dancing/dance
their skillssss in kaoing girl[s]
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singing?
(i heard qj sing once or twice in his 小红)

but both of them are lengzai la hmmm

which one of them is more handsome?

both of them are handsome
but im more handsome!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!>.<"

the reason why i post this entry is cuz of

im shocked when he borrowed the piano's notes from his schoolmate

which is my calssmate too, vwen is her name

LOL
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and

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happy bday to ah yun
(qi jia's bro which is more handsome than qj)

and

happy belated bday to fai *18/11

wish you both leng² zai zai, hand hand some some

A promise.... N A warning

Hmm... is been a long long time..
tat we cock gang din update this blog...
the reason behind it
i think....
coz every1 is bz with sumthg....
or forget le?
nvm ba.......

juz to let other than cock gang's ppl noe...
tat we ARE fine.....
and yet...
cocker in the gang are still always out and have fun.....
ehehe.....

AND a big warning to this anonymous....
i dun care who u are...
but i wan to tell u
this is a blog
which shares cock gang story...
if u feel sien
u can dun surf to our blog.....
we can accept ur comment...
but plz dun too over....
if u really think we are kids...
yes indeed.... we are kids..
so... juz leave us happily with our gang k?

Digi

～ 表白 ～

表白这个词汇对现代的年轻人相信并不陌生。好感、喜欢、表白、交往这几个词汇仿佛像是已被定义在一起，常被年轻人连在一块儿地谈论。在一段感情当中，表白扮演着重要的一环，没有表白就不会有另一半。很多人在表白后尴尬得做不成朋友，也有很多人在勇于表白后发展成情侣。表白的成败，取决于太多的因素，当中包括感觉、时间和缘份。　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　

表白成功者，确实是可喜可贺，因为一段感情终于有了成果。无论最终这一段感情是否能天长地久，至少双方都曾经拥有过美好的回忆，学会如何珍惜。表白失败者，也并不可耻，至少他勇于向喜欢的人坦白，大方地承认喜欢一个人。被拒绝的一方，其实也已付出了他的真心，只是不及他人幸运而已。　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　

人，除了是个富有感情的生物，也是个互相矛盾的动物。当你喜欢一个人时，你会主动向对方表白吗？会，因为想要有机会可以更加细心地呵护他，真心地对待他；不会，因为害怕得不偿失，与他的关系不升反降。在不同的状况，人类确实会因深思熟虑而做出不同的决择。喜欢一个人，心里自然会希望他过得比自己好，不受任何的委屈和伤害。倘若自己现在无法给予他任何的物质，你还会向他表白吗？　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　一道看似简单的问题，

基于社会的现实变得充满变数。会或不会，因个人而异。“我喜欢你”还是藏在心里，他的内心仍在犹豫着…　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　

~ 国泰~

New Maple PIC...

since no ppl update blog... let me start 1st xD

**SATURDAY**

after a ******** friday... it is finally on saturday le...
i woke up almost afternoon...
then PK asked me whether i hav GG or not..
then skip skip skip de story....
and i played my 1st match wit him while mapling =D
then ah fai jiu ask me when we go out le...
i say afternoon... >.<
the actual plan was going to "date" with him de...
coz got smthg weird de feeling bothering me lately
then wat i 1st time of is ~fai fai~
but since i told Pk about it..
so, lets 3P-----pl go out la...
haha
it was really fun...
we went to SP walk arnd..
watched MAX payne..
wow now i searching the game of it...
it was so cool le....
and i actually met a lot of fren in SP... :D

going home...
i took kesas route to bak home coz nid to fetch PK to collect some "private stuff"
then fai's mother called....
and fai say we now traffic jam..
cant make it la...
oh shit...
dun wait me ba..
today i gonna sleep at qin jia de house le...
hmmm......
then we laugh like sot de in car as fai told us smthg REAL funny.....
we oso did an exploration at Bkt Jati b4 we go home.. >.<


after home.... is gaming time~
but... wit 2 PSP...
we played bleach like crazy...
play til both PSP nid to recharge le.....
arnd 3am... both pk and fai sleep liao....
me still on9-ing and writing this blog...
LOL....
both of them conquered my bed..
where shud i sleep tonite?

Tats a weird and happy saturday...
BESIDES, i nid to thx a special person who willing to MSN me...
gam dong le...
THANK YOU le.. *********
sorry coz wont mention the name as it is a privacy...
hope u dun mind.. =D

3.15am....
sleepy...
finiding place to slot me in between pk and ah fai on my bed....
dun think we are gay
coz we arent gay.....
juz tat we are cock gang..
we are family....
xD

nitez every 1